Friday, April 20, 2012

3. Chapter 11-Concept


Styles of Loving:
People might believe that love grows out of a friendship or that it happens at first sight. Just like there are primary colors there are primary styles of loving, eros, storge and ludos.
Eros: The most spontaneous love style, is intense and it includes sexual, spiritual, intellectual, or emotional attraction.
Storge: This is a love based on friendship and compatibility, it is comfortable and even-keeled kind. It grows out of common interests, values and life goals. They do not include the great highs of erotic ones but they don't partake in fiery conflict.
Ludos: This type of love is playful, and it is seen as a game, like a lighthearted adventure that is not really taken seriously. Many people go through ludic periods, like after a long-term relationship, but they don't stay in it. This style of loving is for people who like the romance but aren't ready to settle down.

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